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Re: Songwriters speech (100,491) (100,494) by Matty from Vancouver Canada
I donno, she was elated and excited for this award for months and years. She was over excited, and improving. Mariah told us at the beginning of her speech she was ignoring her prompts. She decided for an off the cuff approach. It reminds me of when she accepted the Ally GLADD Award; she just did her. The GLADD award speech was delivered and received by the community she was talking to so positively. I think she was attempting the same approach here, but staggered. I think she was in her mode of not taking her so seriously and poking fun at herself.

MC pointing out how few women are in the Songwriters Hall of Fame should be the talking point, IMO.
(Friday 17 June 2022; 23:30)
Re: Songwriters speech (100,475) (100,493) by Mò from South Africa
Randy, you are not negative. The speech was horrible. *Closed my ears* Sad moment for true lambs. It was one of her most anticipated speeches as a songwriter, and it turned into self mockery.
(Friday 17 June 2022; 23:29)
Re: Songwriters speech (100,486) (100,492) by Mò from South Africa
Mariah is a professional, groomed from the start of her career for public appearances. What played out on that stage was tragic.
(Friday 17 June 2022; 23:17)
Re: Songwriters speech (100,490) (100,491) by Edward from USA
Because it's easier to justify. My brother is bipolar, he stopped having manic episodes when he was diagnosed and started taking his meds. His meds have been changed a few times, but nobody in my family is forcing meds into his mouth or have him on 24/7 watch, he knows he has to be responsible and take them.

For those who are screaming some of us lack compassion, why don't you scream at Mariah to put the bottle down, and put the arsenal of resources she has at her disposal to work and take responsiblity by not mixing meds with substances. It's not like she doesn't know. There are many celebrities with mental illness, but they do what they have to do to avoid this type of situation.

I have compassion for people with mental illness, especially those who don't have it easy with the resources. People in Mariah's circumstances make me mad because they know better than that.

Now I know that every time Mariah acts weird and out of place, the bipolar card is the new excuse, typical lamb mentality, no wonder why they think we're all nuts. I wonder if the bipolar card covers horrible outfits too.
(Friday 17 June 2022; 23:00)
Re: Songwriters speech (100,479) (100,490) by MusicfanJ from Germany
"But she was almost a parody of herself. Absolutely heart breaking." Yes I thought the same. It was not easy to watch. I really wish Mariah would heal from whatever it causes the "problems". She has all the money and time to take care of herself. If she feels so bad, why not take some time without that showbiz circus. And then come back healthy and authentic. I hope she feels better soon. "After every storm a rainbow appears."
(Friday 17 June 2022; 22:11)
Re: Songwriters speech (100,487) (100,489) by jaker20 from US
Some of you are just absolutely insufferable heartless human beings. That's what you guys are. She's obviously nervous, and that always triggers her anxieties and disorder.
(Friday 17 June 2022; 21:56)
Re: Songwriters speech (100,483) (100,488) by Stacey from USA
My dad suffered from bipolar, anxiety and depression his whole life. Trust me when I say I've seen it up close too many times. I myself struggle with anxiety, having severe post pardum depression after each of my three kids. I know mental illness. If anything it makes me sad when I see someone struggle.
(Friday 17 June 2022; 21:02)
Re: Songwriters speech (100,485) (100,487) by Edward from USA
I agree with you, but if you're taking your medications or not mixing them with any other substances, these things are usually kept under control.
(Friday 17 June 2022; 20:30)
Re: Songwriters speech (100,482) (100,486) by Edward from USA
Sorry, but Mariah isn't an amateur, she's a professional with enough experience under her skirt to know better. All these justifications sound kind of crazy to me. When you've been waiting for the award most important of your career, you plan things up so everything is perfect. You don't show up to your wedding drunk wearing sneakers, you can do that after. She's given great speeches before for less important awards. She could drink herself into next week after her big moment.
(Friday 17 June 2022; 20:26)
Re: Songwriters speech (100,484) (100,485) by 123 from USA
What is a manic episode in bipolar disorder?

In the manic phase of bipolar disorder, it's common to experience feelings of heightened energy, creativity, and euphoria. If you're experiencing a manic episode, you may talk a mile a minute, sleep very little, and be hyperactive. You may also feel like you're all-powerful, invincible, or destined for greatness.
(Friday 17 June 2022; 20:20)
Re: Songwriters speech (100,478) (100,484) by Edward from USA
Exactly my sentiment. She's talked about being a songwriter first and foremost since times immemorial, yet here she is presented with the most important award of her career and what does she do? She gets into her diva outfit and messes it up. But oh well, let me be delusional and say it was just perfect and we must love it because it's Mariah and that's what fans do.

I hope people understand why she isn't as respected like the other songwriters and less talented divas, it doesn't have anything to do with her music, it has to do with this unlikable character she thinks people love to watch. And not only that, what kind of outfit is that? Was it a boob and fake ass contest. Lord have mercy.
(Friday 17 June 2022; 20:17)
Re: Songwriters speech (100,481) (100,483) by 123 from USA
Are people that hateful to not realize that she was obviously having a manic episode while on stage? This is classic bipolar behavior. Mariah has two modes. When she is coherent and taking her meds and they are working, we get speeches like the Billboard one. When her bipolar disorder kicks in, we get the speech she gave at the SWHOF. Please educate yourselves and google manic episode in google for bipolar disorder. Do you all think that this is something that just went away when she was diagnosed in 2001? Are we really judging someone's behavior due to their mental health disorder? So rich coming from "fans" who claim to be educated and faultless. Do better, be better. Stop trolling and judging for thumbs up on a fan board. It's childish and shows some of you are "eternally 12" mentally. Mariah's bipolar. A real medical condition. What is your excuse?
(Friday 17 June 2022; 20:09)
Re: Songwriters speech (100,479) (100,482) by Bobby A from United States
Something was off last night with MC. Maybe too many glasses of champagne before the ceremony. She seemed like she had to put on the diva persona when she is in a element she can't control the lighting and how she will be perceived by the audience of her peers. MC's bioplar diagnosis causes her to act this way. It is clear that her dysfunctional family has scarred her real personality severely. She hasn't healed from the hurt that she had endured by her family all of these years.

We didn't know in the early 1990s how hurt MC was inside. It was hard to watch her speech to the end. I almost felt like the laughs at the end of her speech were like the audience was mocking her last comments. We might not ever get another "real" album or tour again. I kind of wished MC was as strong and direct as Monique.
(Friday 17 June 2022; 19:58)
Re: Songwriters speech (100,475) (100,481) by TheWind from England
Incoherent. Missed the mark. Undermined her purpose for being there. It's embarrassing that at her age she is unable to get it together for these events. Aside from her speech, her outfit and hair were awful too. I don't know who is styling her lately, but that outfit was something befitting a real housewives reunion and not a seasoned diva. And to be clear, that isn't a good thing.
(Friday 17 June 2022; 19:47)
Re: Songwriters speech (100,475) (100,480) by Brad from USA
I agree that Mariah's speech could have used some editing, but it wasn't incoherent or really ditzy. To me, it had the feel of the child that shoulders the burden of everything that is wrong in life for years on end and finally the child is given a chance to speak their truth and every bottled up thought and emotion comes pouring out of the child all at once. What her appearance also shows is that we as fans really have zero clues as to what is going on with her in her personal and professional life, as well as her physical and mental health. That is the way it should be, as we each deserve privacy. Clearly, Mariah isn't going to be releasing new music when she is at a rough stage in her own life, as she is now. She has two children to raise (on her own), who are entering difficult years of development and a brand/business to figure out how to sustain, grow, develop and secure for the foreseeable future. The release of new music just isn't a component of that right now as it doesn't pay the bills any longer. But hopefully she is still writing and when she gets to a place where she wants to record and send something out into the universe she will be able to. That just is not right now. For now and always, lets enjoy and relish who she is and what she has given us for so, so long. And we will keep that fire burning.
(Friday 17 June 2022; 19:46)
Re: Songwriters speech (100,475) (100,479) by Bill from the UK
Regrettably I agree. I was looking so forward to this moment, given she has fought to be acknowledged as a songwriter since 1990. To get such a great accolade, probably the most important to her, and show up drunk and be completely incoherent and give some rambling nonsensical speech was such a disappointment. I was actually saddened. This is forever, and how she'll be remembered. She says underneath the diva attitude she's the gifted songwriter etc., but she was almost a parody of herself. Absolutely heart breaking.
(Friday 17 June 2022; 19:35)
Re: Songwriters speech (100,475) (100,478) by Stacey from USA
Yeah, it was messy. Her speech at the Billboard awards, Icon Award, was perfect. I wish she could have channeled that same thought process, saying things like writing songs helped me survive my struggles and helped many of you survive yours, etc.
(Friday 17 June 2022; 19:01)
Re: Songwriters speech (100,475) (100,477) by Weston from United States
Randy, I have to agree with you It was kind of cringy to watch. She should have left the diva persona at home and kept it serious about her songwriting.
(Friday 17 June 2022; 17:47)
Re: Songwriters speech (100,475) (100,476) by Anonymous from United States
It's absurd that a 53-year-old adult behaves like this but then in the next breath complains about "not being taken seriously as a songwriter".
(Friday 17 June 2022; 17:47)
Songwriters speech (100,475) by Randy from USA
It was awful. Incoherent. Ditzy. But you all say I'm negative. What did you all think?
(Friday 17 June 2022; 16:47)
Re: Article: Mariah Carey to get in Songwriters Hall of Fame (100,473) (100,474) by jaker20 from US
My wish for Mariah's next coming years and decades is to be like Paul McCartney, and that is to keep on writing, keep on sharing her gifts, keep writing even for other artists.
(Friday 17 June 2022; 16:39)
Article: Mariah Carey to get in Songwriters Hall of Fame (100,473) by jaker20 from US
This is probably one of Mariah's most important moments more than her other supposedly "major" awards. An event that that will happen quietly but have bigger meaning to her, because this is what separates her craft from all the rest. She's not just a voice, she's an artist.
(Friday 17 June 2022; 16:20)
Re: Collaborations (100,468) (100,472) by Hpr1902 from China
Ok. And then?
(Friday 17 June 2022; 13:05)
Michael Buble (100,471) by Todd from Melbourne, Australia
Heard an interview with the Boobs today on the radio here in Australia.

He was asked a question about tours and setlists, to which he responded: "Lets be real, I'm a legacy artist. People want to come and hear songs they know. If I start talking about new songs that I'm writing, nobody is going to give a s**t. All you have to do is look at others in this industry that try that. People stop coming to see you."

Maybe this is why we aren't getting anything new from Mariah - she's come to the same realisation as Michael Buble, and the rest of the world? It ain't a bad thing!
(Friday 17 June 2022; 08:52)
Congrats Mariah (100,470) by Lady B from USA
What an incredible, and well deserved, honor.
(Friday 17 June 2022; 02:33)

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