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Best ABMB live performance (114,307) by Bobby A from United States I understand better now, but MC has shown us through her songs that she totally gives her all to someone when she truly loves him. Whenever a person falls head over heels with someone, it can be difficult not show some emotional scars after their marriage has ended. MC is a hopeless romantic and it is sometimes difficult for her to let go because she gives her all to someone special. She does not play with someone's heart when she knows that he is the one. MC has become emotional and had to cry and camouflage her tears just to hold on to the memory of their song. I hope she will find love again with someone special. (Tuesday 28 July 2026; 05:06) this is a reply to message 114,305

Best ABMB live performance (114,305) by Edward from USA Putting the burden of your happiness on someone else's shoulders is unfair and unrealistic. Happiness has to come from within. It can't be something another person gives you. I'm not saying things like a breakup, losing someone you love, or other painful experiences can't affect us. They absolutely can. But happiness isn't a permanent state for anyone. People, circumstances, and family can shape us, for better or worse. At the end of the day, though, with or without all the resources and support that some people have and others don't, we're the ones who have to put in the work to heal. I lost my mom when I was 13, and it broke me. It changed me forever because she was my rock and an incredible mother. One day she was there, and the next she was gone, just like that. So I can definitely relate to her grief and pain. I'm really rooting for Mariah to get better, not just for her, but for the twins too. They need their mom. At the end of the day, though, she'll have to get the help she needs because, from what we've been seeing, that's not it. If I were a friend who truly cared about her, I wouldn't be encouraging her to put herself out there like this. Where are the professionals around her? Where are the people looking out for her best interests? I say that because the backlash could end up being even more damaging, especially while she's dealing with so much grief. I think Mariah should step away from the spotlight for a while and focus on herself until she's in a better place. That's just how I see it. Pardon the rant. (Monday 27 July 2026; 13:52)

Leaving the spotlight for a while (114,306) by nancy from Switzerland Hmm if Mariah leaves the spotlight for a while completely, it is difficult to start again. How would that comeback be? She already made a long pause after [Caution]. Of course there have been some activities in between those albums with Ariana Grande, Muni Long, Christmas tours, Rarities, Master Class, Portrait remix etc. She had quite cut down already. I think she has to do [albums] without touring. I am not so fond of this Christmas tour either. But I understand that brings her still money and fans who still appreciate it. To promote the album she has to give not much but meaningful, intelligent interviews with good interviewers who understand and respect her. Not that gossip shows like Andy [Cohen] who waits for the next scandal to explode. In the studio the voice can be polished like many artists do too. Madonna for example sounds too young in her new album. Almost like Sabrina Carpenter. Her daughter Lola sounds more mature than Madonna. Hmm difficult to say. Whatever makes MC happy. It hurts me to see that someone like J.Lo still sings and Mariah doesn't anymore. I just can't think about it sorry. (Monday 27 July 2026; 23:06)

Best ABMB live performance (114,305) by Edward from USA Putting the burden of your happiness on someone else's shoulders is unfair and unrealistic. Happiness has to come from within. It can't be something another person gives you. I'm not saying things like a breakup, losing someone you love, or other painful experiences can't affect us. They absolutely can. But happiness isn't a permanent state for anyone. People, circumstances, and family can shape us, for better or worse. At the end of the day, though, with or without all the resources and support that some people have and others don't, we're the ones who have to put in the work to heal. I lost my mom when I was 13, and it broke me. It changed me forever because she was my rock and an incredible mother. One day she was there, and the next she was gone, just like that. So I can definitely relate to her grief and pain. I'm really rooting for Mariah to get better, not just for her, but for the twins too. They need their mom. At the end of the day, though, she'll have to get the help she needs because, from what we've been seeing, that's not it. If I were a friend who truly cared about her, I wouldn't be encouraging her to put herself out there like this. Where are the professionals around her? Where are the people looking out for her best interests? I say that because the backlash could end up being even more damaging, especially while she's dealing with so much grief. I think Mariah should step away from the spotlight for a while and focus on herself until she's in a better place. That's just how I see it. Pardon the rant. (Monday 27 July 2026; 13:52) this is a reply to message 114,303

Best ABMB live performance (114,303) by MusicfanJ from Germany I agree with "everyone is responsible for their own happiness". I try to live that way. But there are a lot of people famous and normal ones who really got broke "inside" after loosing someone. I can understand it. The heart can break from suffering, the soul will follow and then the health won't be there anymore. I think the divorce from Nick, the shame with all the different baby mamas was too much for her. Plus the loss of her mother. Plus maybe other things with her health she doesn't want to speak of. I just wish she would find real happiness again. Alone or with a partner. Inner peace and health. With all her money she could take a wonderful journey to beautiful places, maybe even meet normal people who are not in the circus showbusiness. She should stay away from the "wrong" yes-people. (Monday 27 July 2026; 12:33)

Best ABMB live performance (114,304) by MusicfanJ from Germany Great post Will. "Made Mariah's performances so special and personable". Yes, I see it the same way. I never needed a big show, Mariah with her smile and aura was enough. She had magic back then. She was stunning all the way, her "Mariah style" so unique and I loved it from the first time I saw her on TV. That warm smile, the eyes shining. Now she seems so sad. With "HFIA" you're right too. After reading your thoughts about the album I also think it's not an up-lifting one. It has some good songs on it. I love "My love" and "NII". Somehow it feels like "a last album". I hope there will be another album with songs and lyrics more in the style of "Butterfly". But I'm not so sure that this will happen. But perhaps Mariah will surprise us with another one. (Monday 27 July 2026; 13:49) this is a reply to message 114,300

Best ABMB live performance (114,300) by Will from England I miss Mariah just smiling naturally during her singing and having fun. Lately she's so wrapped up in not missing her cue or a lyric or not hitting a note, that she's forgotten to have fun whilst performing. This performance is carefree, has improvised moments, interactions, some funny bits, everything that made Mariah's performances so special and personable. Put this performance and then immediately play her piano led moments, and it's two different people. I agree with the other comments, that spark she had for performing has faded, whether it be through medication or otherwise. I had so much trouble connecting with HFIA, because it's overall, it is just a depressing album sonically, vocally and thematically. To me, it speaks of a woman who feels lost, in the depths of depression - a theme continued on from Portrait. It puts me into a depressive mood whenever I hear a song from it. It's a feeling I've never felt from her albums, so it's my least played. There is more power in her revealing what is wrong and owning it, rather than shutting it away (look at Celine) but ultimately it is her choice on whether or not to reveal it. She could have become a spokesperson for bipolar, to talk about it, spread awareness and understanding, hell could have even used it as a source of inspiration for songwriting (it would be the most vulnerable she would be in years ever since Petals), but instead released the information to beat Stella to it and has never spoken of it since. Again, it is her right to do so, but in not sharing it, she has become a prisoner of her own gilded cage. (Monday 27 July 2026; 01:09)

Best ABMB live performance (114,303) by MusicfanJ from Germany I agree with "everyone is responsible for their own happiness". I try to live that way. But there are a lot of people famous and normal ones who really got broke "inside" after loosing someone. I can understand it. The heart can break from suffering, the soul will follow and then the health won't be there anymore. I think the divorce from Nick, the shame with all the different baby mamas was too much for her. Plus the loss of her mother. Plus maybe other things with her health she doesn't want to speak of. I just wish she would find real happiness again. Alone or with a partner. Inner peace and health. With all her money she could take a wonderful journey to beautiful places, maybe even meet normal people who are not in the circus showbusiness. She should stay away from the "wrong" yes-people. (Monday 27 July 2026; 12:33) this is a reply to message 114,302

Best ABMB live performance (114,302) by Edward from USA Bobby A, enough with the blame game. Nobody else is responsible for your happiness. That's like parents who raise their children as an investment, expecting them to be responsible for their happiness or to support them financially when they get old. Relationships can affect someone's life, but at the end of the day, each person is responsible for their own happiness. Blaming Nick for Mariah's sadness 12 years later is a huge reach and, to me, completely ridiculous. (Monday 27 July 2026; 06:00)

Best ABMB live performance (114,302) by Edward from USA Bobby A, enough with the blame game. Nobody else is responsible for your happiness. That's like parents who raise their children as an investment, expecting them to be responsible for their happiness or to support them financially when they get old. Relationships can affect someone's life, but at the end of the day, each person is responsible for their own happiness. Blaming Nick for Mariah's sadness 12 years later is a huge reach and, to me, completely ridiculous. (Monday 27 July 2026; 06:00) this is a reply to message 114,301

Best ABMB live performance (114,301) by Bobby A from United States I think we all know who's to blame for MC's sadness - Nick. MC hasn't been the same since 2012. (Monday 27 July 2026; 02:23)

Best ABMB live performance (114,301) by Bobby A from United States I think we all know who's to blame for MC's sadness - Nick. MC hasn't been the same since 2012. (Monday 27 July 2026; 02:23) this is a reply to message 114,300

Best ABMB live performance (114,300) by Will from England I miss Mariah just smiling naturally during her singing and having fun. Lately she's so wrapped up in not missing her cue or a lyric or not hitting a note, that she's forgotten to have fun whilst performing. This performance is carefree, has improvised moments, interactions, some funny bits, everything that made Mariah's performances so special and personable. Put this performance and then immediately play her piano led moments, and it's two different people. I agree with the other comments, that spark she had for performing has faded, whether it be through medication or otherwise. I had so much trouble connecting with HFIA, because it's overall, it is just a depressing album sonically, vocally and thematically. To me, it speaks of a woman who feels lost, in the depths of depression - a theme continued on from Portrait. It puts me into a depressive mood whenever I hear a song from it. It's a feeling I've never felt from her albums, so it's my least played. There is more power in her revealing what is wrong and owning it, rather than shutting it away (look at Celine) but ultimately it is her choice on whether or not to reveal it. She could have become a spokesperson for bipolar, to talk about it, spread awareness and understanding, hell could have even used it as a source of inspiration for songwriting (it would be the most vulnerable she would be in years ever since Petals), but instead released the information to beat Stella to it and has never spoken of it since. Again, it is her right to do so, but in not sharing it, she has become a prisoner of her own gilded cage. (Monday 27 July 2026; 01:09)

Best ABMB live performance (114,300) by Will from England I miss Mariah just smiling naturally during her singing and having fun. Lately she's so wrapped up in not missing her cue or a lyric or not hitting a note, that she's forgotten to have fun whilst performing. This performance is carefree, has improvised moments, interactions, some funny bits, everything that made Mariah's performances so special and personable. Put this performance and then immediately play her piano led moments, and it's two different people. I agree with the other comments, that spark she had for performing has faded, whether it be through medication or otherwise. I had so much trouble connecting with HFIA, because it's overall, it is just a depressing album sonically, vocally and thematically. To me, it speaks of a woman who feels lost, in the depths of depression - a theme continued on from Portrait. It puts me into a depressive mood whenever I hear a song from it. It's a feeling I've never felt from her albums, so it's my least played. There is more power in her revealing what is wrong and owning it, rather than shutting it away (look at Celine) but ultimately it is her choice on whether or not to reveal it. She could have become a spokesperson for bipolar, to talk about it, spread awareness and understanding, hell could have even used it as a source of inspiration for songwriting (it would be the most vulnerable she would be in years ever since Petals), but instead released the information to beat Stella to it and has never spoken of it since. Again, it is her right to do so, but in not sharing it, she has become a prisoner of her own gilded cage. (Monday 27 July 2026; 01:09) this is a reply to message 114,296

Best ABMB live performance (114,296) by Lighty from China This is the Mariah that I miss the most. She had sparkles in her eyes and passion when she's singing live on stage, and more importantly, she was focused. Compared to the most recent Underneath the Stars "performance", it's like two completely different persons. I hope she gets her energy and health back, and be able to run on stage again. (Sunday 26 July 2026; 05:36)

Madonna reached number 1 (114,299) by Bobby A from United States Madonna reconnected with the gay community with Confessions II. Besides the Lambs, who is really MC's other core audience? She has to reconnect with that core audience again. (Sunday 26 July 2026; 19:46) this is a reply to message 114,295

Madonna reached number 1 (114,295) by jaker20 from US Madonna connecting her new album to her last successful album (Confessions in 2005) was a great idea, so it connected with her legacy fans too who might have already abandoned her. She also had a collab with Sabrina Carpenter, who is popular right now. Mariah can't get that kind of collab anymore unfortunately. I don't think she has a good relationship with the biggest artists right now. Sadly, Madonna can actually still move on her own without assistance. The world seeing Mariah can't even walk on stage and if she does, she looks unstable and wobbly. Marian being assisted by Ariana to walk out of the VMA stage was a bad look that she won't be able to undo, now people think, she is, well, very old, sorry. Things like this matter in the eyes of public especially legacy artists. But I have to give credit to Mariah because her annual Christmas career is still bigger than Madonna's pop career, even though I think both their pop music careers are pretty much over if we're being honest because none of their recent songs (both of them) are making any impact whatsoever.. (Sunday 26 July 2026; 02:25)

Best ABMB live performance (114,298) by MusicfanJ from Germany Absolutely. I agree in everything you said. That spark is missing. With it she was the best. (Sunday 26 July 2026; 11:45) this is a reply to message 114,296

Best ABMB live performance (114,296) by Lighty from China This is the Mariah that I miss the most. She had sparkles in her eyes and passion when she's singing live on stage, and more importantly, she was focused. Compared to the most recent Underneath the Stars "performance", it's like two completely different persons. I hope she gets her energy and health back, and be able to run on stage again. (Sunday 26 July 2026; 05:36)

Madonna reached number 1 (114,297) by MusicfanJ from Germany It was because of the world cup show. Right after that she reached number one. Her gig was really short but fun to watch with the Brazilian Ronaldo and the car intro. Madonna was always Madonna plus she's really fit for her age. I'm not surprised that she's back at number one. (Sunday 26 July 2026; 11:39) this is a reply to message 114,293

Madonna reached number 1 (114,293) by Randy from USA So, if Mariah can't do it because she's a legacy artist, how did Madonna do it? So many times on here there's a barrel of excuses for MC's new music not doing well. Thoughts? (Saturday 25 July 2026; 21:02)

Best ABMB live performance (114,296) by Lighty from China This is the Mariah that I miss the most. She had sparkles in her eyes and passion when she's singing live on stage, and more importantly, she was focused. Compared to the most recent Underneath the Stars "performance", it's like two completely different persons. I hope she gets her energy and health back, and be able to run on stage again. (Sunday 26 July 2026; 05:36) this is a reply to message 114,292

Best ABMB live performance (114,292) by Lainsky from Philippines She sang her heart out in this song and probably in the whole concert. For me, it is the best Always Be My Baby live rendition I have seen. I am so glad it is part of the Daydream30. (Saturday 25 July 2026; 15:06)

Madonna reached number 1 (114,295) by jaker20 from US Madonna connecting her new album to her last successful album (Confessions in 2005) was a great idea, so it connected with her legacy fans too who might have already abandoned her. She also had a collab with Sabrina Carpenter, who is popular right now. Mariah can't get that kind of collab anymore unfortunately. I don't think she has a good relationship with the biggest artists right now. Sadly, Madonna can actually still move on her own without assistance. The world seeing Mariah can't even walk on stage and if she does, she looks unstable and wobbly. Marian being assisted by Ariana to walk out of the VMA stage was a bad look that she won't be able to undo, now people think, she is, well, very old, sorry. Things like this matter in the eyes of public especially legacy artists. But I have to give credit to Mariah because her annual Christmas career is still bigger than Madonna's pop career, even though I think both their pop music careers are pretty much over if we're being honest because none of their recent songs (both of them) are making any impact whatsoever.. (Sunday 26 July 2026; 02:25) this is a reply to message 114,293

Madonna reached number 1 (114,293) by Randy from USA So, if Mariah can't do it because she's a legacy artist, how did Madonna do it? So many times on here there's a barrel of excuses for MC's new music not doing well. Thoughts? (Saturday 25 July 2026; 21:02)

Soulless (114,294) by Bobby A from United States Yes, we have to send good vibes to MC and lift her up in prayer. I listened to Here For It All and Nothing Is Impossible today. MC is still giving us some brillant and very personal songs. The glory, shakes, and withdrawals lyric from HFIA is very telling of her ups and downs during the past 15 years. (Sunday 26 July 2026; 01:12) this is a reply to message 114,284

Soulless (114,284) by Terna from Nigeria Nice observations but instead of us complaining, [we] her extended family with our unconditional love for her, can [pray] for her, I often do - [there] is power in [prayer]. That is what her very first song "Vision of Love" is all about. So I encourage you during the course of your day, when it comes to mind, pray for Mariah Carey. (Friday 24 July 2026; 11:56)

Madonna reached number 1 (114,293) by Randy from USA So, if Mariah can't do it because she's a legacy artist, how did Madonna do it? So many times on here there's a barrel of excuses for MC's new music not doing well. Thoughts? (Saturday 25 July 2026; 21:02)

Best ABMB live performance (114,292) by Lainsky from Philippines She sang her heart out in this song and probably in the whole concert. For me, it is the best Always Be My Baby live rendition I have seen. I am so glad it is part of the Daydream30. (Saturday 25 July 2026; 15:06)

Soulless (114,291) by TJ from Norway I'm not sure if Mariah want that kind of friends. I guess no one is prepared for the life changes that celebrities goes through, but after almost 40 years it should be moments where you reflect over what kind of person you want to be. (Saturday 25 July 2026; 13:07) this is a reply to message 114,287

Soulless (114,287) by MusicfanJ from Germany Yes people are the most dangerous people. They will never "help" you. A good friend is always honest and is trying to help because he/she really cares. The same with critics. Critics can help, of course they must be fair and motivating. But if something is wrong and everyone keeps applauding and smiling (mostly fake) that's dangerous. It happend to many legends. I hope Mariah has at least one person (a grown-up) who is honest and cares for her. A real friend. Not just an employee who will say yes to everything because of the money. (Friday 24 July 2026; 21:19)

Soulless (114,290) by Sasha from Nomansland Very thougtful, indeed there's not much else we can do. Praying for her soul to hold on and overcome her struggles. Peace on her. (Friday 24 July 2026; 22:55) this is a reply to message 114,284

Soulless (114,284) by Terna from Nigeria Nice observations but instead of us complaining, [we] her extended family with our unconditional love for her, can [pray] for her, I often do - [there] is power in [prayer]. That is what her very first song "Vision of Love" is all about. So I encourage you during the course of your day, when it comes to mind, pray for Mariah Carey. (Friday 24 July 2026; 11:56)

Constructive criticism (114,289) by nancy from Switzerland I guess Mariah needs to be applauded by her team. To show the world the contrary: Look, look there are people who think the performance was good. I guess she neglects things and doesn't want to see the reality. Also the statement from Busta Rhymes made at the VMA's afterparty was awkward. I really think she needs friends or a team that speaks the truth to her. She lives in her own world. (Friday 24 July 2026; 22:10) this is a reply to message 114,285

Soulless (114,285) by Rashidi Rahim Rick from Malaysia Someone from her team should step up and be brave and bold in shutting off the lyrics monitor whenever Mariah is performing. Instruct her to memorize the lyrics like back in the day. This should be the cure and remedy for all her blank stare (she even didn’t blink her eyes) like she's some sort of robot or something. Take a listen to that annoying “that’s so good” from her team when Mariah just finished performing Underneath The Stars from that latest video. All the yes men yes men from her team. No one is giving her constructive criticism. (Friday 24 July 2026; 12:24)

Soulless (114,288) by Edward from USA I agree. Sadly none of these people think to genuinely care. Remember that the Christmas shows are around the corner, she's only a paycheck to them. Whatever she's going through seems to be serious, they shouldn't yassqueen her into showing herself like this. 😠 (Friday 24 July 2026; 22:00) this is a reply to message 114,285

Soulless (114,285) by Rashidi Rahim Rick from Malaysia Someone from her team should step up and be brave and bold in shutting off the lyrics monitor whenever Mariah is performing. Instruct her to memorize the lyrics like back in the day. This should be the cure and remedy for all her blank stare (she even didn’t blink her eyes) like she's some sort of robot or something. Take a listen to that annoying “that’s so good” from her team when Mariah just finished performing Underneath The Stars from that latest video. All the yes men yes men from her team. No one is giving her constructive criticism. (Friday 24 July 2026; 12:24)

Soulless (114,287) by MusicfanJ from Germany Yes people are the most dangerous people. They will never "help" you. A good friend is always honest and is trying to help because he/she really cares. The same with critics. Critics can help, of course they must be fair and motivating. But if something is wrong and everyone keeps applauding and smiling (mostly fake) that's dangerous. It happend to many legends. I hope Mariah has at least one person (a grown-up) who is honest and cares for her. A real friend. Not just an employee who will say yes to everything because of the money. (Friday 24 July 2026; 21:19) this is a reply to message 114,285

Soulless (114,285) by Rashidi Rahim Rick from Malaysia Someone from her team should step up and be brave and bold in shutting off the lyrics monitor whenever Mariah is performing. Instruct her to memorize the lyrics like back in the day. This should be the cure and remedy for all her blank stare (she even didn’t blink her eyes) like she's some sort of robot or something. Take a listen to that annoying “that’s so good” from her team when Mariah just finished performing Underneath The Stars from that latest video. All the yes men yes men from her team. No one is giving her constructive criticism. (Friday 24 July 2026; 12:24)

Soulless (114,286) by T from USA Some of Mariah's own biggest lambs are yes men. They just agree with whatever they see even if it looks bizarre. They are definitely adding to the problem as they are keeping her in denial. And they shut down any discussion or worry that the true fans have. (Friday 24 July 2026; 13:51) this is a reply to message 114,285

Soulless (114,285) by Rashidi Rahim Rick from Malaysia Someone from her team should step up and be brave and bold in shutting off the lyrics monitor whenever Mariah is performing. Instruct her to memorize the lyrics like back in the day. This should be the cure and remedy for all her blank stare (she even didn’t blink her eyes) like she's some sort of robot or something. Take a listen to that annoying “that’s so good” from her team when Mariah just finished performing Underneath The Stars from that latest video. All the yes men yes men from her team. No one is giving her constructive criticism. (Friday 24 July 2026; 12:24)

Soulless (114,285) by Rashidi Rahim Rick from Malaysia Someone from her team should step up and be brave and bold in shutting off the lyrics monitor whenever Mariah is performing. Instruct her to memorize the lyrics like back in the day. This should be the cure and remedy for all her blank stare (she even didn’t blink her eyes) like she's some sort of robot or something. Take a listen to that annoying “that’s so good” from her team when Mariah just finished performing Underneath The Stars from that latest video. All the yes men yes men from her team. No one is giving her constructive criticism. (Friday 24 July 2026; 12:24)

Soulless (114,284) by Terna from Nigeria Nice observations but instead of us complaining, [we] her extended family with our unconditional love for her, can [pray] for her, I often do - [there] is power in [prayer]. That is what her very first song "Vision of Love" is all about. So I encourage you during the course of your day, when it comes to mind, pray for Mariah Carey. (Friday 24 July 2026; 11:56)

Soulless (114,283) by Philipp from Switzerland I'm genuinely concerned about her. (Friday 24 July 2026; 06:39) this is a reply to message 114,257

Soulless (114,257) by Lainsky from Philippines At least I am not the only one who noticed it. While I used "expressionless", your description, Ed, is more appropriate. Yes, that deadness in her eyes appears soulless or emotionless. Thus, a lifeless but still beautiful voice. She's disconcerting to watch in that video. (Tuesday 21 July 2026; 03:57)

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